Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Santa needs to be more careful...

Good ol' Santa. He meant well, but he really should be more careful in the future. See, last year, Evie so badly wanted Butterscotch. A HUGE play pony by FurReal Friends. Being the thoughtful guy that Santa is, he emailed me to give Evie the heads up that the pony was just too big for our apartment so there would be no room for Butterscotch. She was a little disappointed, but understood, and took it like a champ.
Fast forward to this year. We moved into a new home in January. It has a formal livingroom that is basically empty. The kids use it for a play area more than anything. So, of course, about August, the statements that Santa will be bringing Butterscotch because we have more room now began. Oh, Santa, what have you done?! But alas, never fear, says dear Santa. For the FurReal friends company is no longer making Butterscotch!! Hurray! Problem solved. Or so we thought. Seems Butterscotch has simply been replaced. By S'Mores... ...and she thinks S'Mores is cuter. Of course. So Santa, you need to think long and hard about how you're going to get out of this one. Suddenly William's request for the $130 Lego set doesn't seem so bad, does it? I don't envy you Santa...

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Heaven help me...

Dear Lord, please do not let my daughter see any advertisements that tell her that High School Musical 3 will be in theaters this Friday. Amen.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Bored

Being bored at work leads to some strange stuff...like this:

You Are
An Evil Pumpkin Face

You would make a good pumpkin bomb.

Scary movie suggestions, please

My good friend Chris mentioned that it is scary movie month...which got me asking his opinions on some scary movies...which got me thinking about what scary movies I haven't seen that I would like to...which led me here to ask you for scary movie suggestions. Please.

Any final words?

Ohio executed a man today who had spent years trying to convince the powers that be that it was unlawful to execute him because he was obese. He was tried and convicted of sexually assaulting and murdering two college students. Six members of one victim's family were there as witnesses, and here are the final words they heard from him:

"You (expletive) haven't paid any attention to anything I've said in the last 22 1/2 years, why would anyone pay any attention to anything I've had to say now."

Monday, October 13, 2008

A Morning Well Spent

Yesterday morning was the Walk Now for Autism event. The Walking for William team had a great time!!! Our tiny team raised $815!!!! There was so much to do there...bouncy houses, games, face painting, characters to meet. So fun!! And it was at the very place that the Buckeyes play football, so Evie was in hog-heaven. Walking into the stadium, she started sing-chanting "I'm walking on the Buckeyes field. I'm walking on the Buckeyes field." William was excited to high-five a bounty hunter from Star Wars. When we asked if he wanted his picture taken with the bounty hunters, he said, "no, I just wanted to say Hi." Toooooo cute!

During the opening ceremonies, there was a lot of talk from several of the speakers about curing Autism. This is one area where Autism Speaks and I have differing opinions. And yesterday I had to explain that to my child. Here is the conversation:

William: "Mom, I need to be cured from Autism."
Mom: "NO, you don't William, you are perfect."
William: "Even with Autism?"
Mom: "Yep, even with Autism, you are perfect.
William: "Then why did they say we have to cure Autism?"
Mom: A long explanation about how some kids with Autism cannon speak, go to a regular school, make friends, etc. so they want to try to make those kids better. "But you don't need to be made better."
William: "Because I'm smart? And perfect with Autism?"
Mom: "Exactly."

I don't want a cure for my child. I understand, to some extent, that some people do, but not me. What I *DO* want is access to insurance coverage for therapies deemed most effective in giving him a little exra assistance where he needs it. There should not be clinics and hospitals out there that can refuse to treat these children, but there are. There should not be 2 years worth of red tape to start treatment, but there can be. What I *DO* want is more research on a wider spectrum to determine what those most effective therapies are for the wide variety of children on the Autism Spectrum. What I *DO* want is more education on Autism for teachers and pediatricians, and those other professionals who come in contact with my child who's brain works just a little differently than theirs...not worse, just different. The money raised by Autism Speaks goes to fund research and training and campaining for all of these areas.

Ok, sorry, back to the fun stuff. My wonderful sister Christy actually remembered her camera yesterday, unlike the rest of us!!! So here are just a few pictures from the day. You can see more about the Brutus Buckeye statues they are posing with by clicking here.


William and Evie both LOVED meeting the characters from Star Wars, and William is going to think this is the coolest picture! He will love that the Storm Trooper behind him has the gun raised over his head. But take a look at my favorite part of this picture...see how Evie is holding onto William's hand? Precious!!

William's sweet handprint....

I'd walk to the ends of the earth and back for this Super kid!!!!!

Thursday, October 09, 2008

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Evie's parent teacher conference is this afternoon. Why do I feel like I'm being called to the principal's office? Ha!

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Joining the Big Boy ranks...

It's official....those carefree days of lower elementary are over for my sweet son. Today, he has "official" standardized testing. Not the "let's just see how they do" standardized testing of years prior...the real deal. He'll have even more of it in April. AND, the number/letter grades have started. No more "S" for satisfactory and "E" for excellent. Nope. Now's the time to be called to the carpet. To see that 89%/"B" and get all upset because it's ONE STINKIN' POINT away from an "A"!!! No more 6 word, could-do-it-in-my-sleep, practice 100 times during class spelling lists either. 25 spelling words each week. And they're difficult. And they don't get any extra practice with them during school. Hard core, every night studying going on here, folks. Third grade is the real deal. :)

Thursday, October 02, 2008

Getting political for a moment...

Folks, I am not one of those people that LOVES to discuss politics. I actually hate discussing it. I have my opinions but I'm not usually pounding the pavement about them. But with political arena as it is today, I just gotta vent for a sec about some political issues...that really shouldn't be issues, political or not, in my opinion :)

1. Abortion--Pro-choice does NOT equal Pro-death people!!! PUH-LEEEASE figure that out people! If I found myself single, alone, even raped, and pregnant, abortion would never be an option for me. No way. Not ever. And I wish with my entire being that those women that choose abortion would think a little harder about the option of adoption. And I wish with all of my being that this country cared about ALL of it's citizens, even the "special needs" ones, enough that abortion didn't seem like the only answer for some women who's ultrasound's indicate there might be a handicap. HOWEVER, I do not, and will not EVER, believe that the government should have any right to make that decision for any woman. Period.

2. Gay marriage--if you've read my blog for a while, you already know where I stand on this. It's 2008 for crying out loud!! I'm really pissed that anyone would still be having to fight for the right to get married. The laws in this country that keep two people in love from getting married are absolutely crazy! I can't even wrap my mind around why this has to be an issue at all. I was SOOO irate last week...why? Because Clay Aiken, Mr. American-Idol runner-up turned superstar (?), had to go on the front cover of a magazine with the headline "Yes, I'm Gay!" Why did this bother me?? Because I would love to see us living in a world where the response to a statement like that would be "so..." A world where that statement would receive the same reaction as if he had said "I had a cheeseburger for lunch." But no, it made my yahoo news front page for three days. Seriously. To me, the laws that make same-sex marriage illegal equate with the laws that kept blacks and women from voting. And yes, I am a straight, married, mother. And no, I'm not worried about what allowing gay marriage would do to my kids or their future.

3. Sarah Palin--are you kidding me???? Did John McCain and the Republican Party just throw names in a hat and pick one? And before I go on, you HAVE to know that I do not vote simply along party lines. I always consider each candidate as an individual. I've voted for Democrats and Republicans alike in the 16 years that it has been legal for me to vote in this country. So this in NOT a partisan platform I'm preaching from here. Seriously though?? Sarah Palin??? I encourage you to read this letter to Sarah from a fellow blogger, and mother of a child with Down's Syndrome. It just skims the surface really.

Now, realize this is just me venting. I *know* the opposition. There are people near and dear to me, in my own family, who completely disagree with me. But today I'm feeling vocal...so just deal with it. :)

Wednesday, October 01, 2008